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Tuesday, Dec. 06, 2005 - 2:52 a.m.

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Steaks and snowshoes

all is going well on the artsyguy front.
I got invited for dinner with him and rollerboy,
and I am returning the favour for supper (spaghetti, oh my)
tomorrow evening.

It is lovely not having to cook every single night.
and lovely not to eat alone what I cook.

I suspect they rather feel the same way.

And I wandangled a deal of helping fold laundry in exchange for rollerboy doing me a drawing of his comic book character.

A couple interesting things.

Apparently artsyguy's mom said 'well, what about that really young woman at your place around Halloween, what about her?"
haha. that "really young woman" is me, two years older than her son.
But it is lovely knowing that his mom is suggesting me to him, even when she thinks I am 22. hah!

And apparently rollerboy's mom said "well, why don't you just see wench, you don't need to tell your ex if she is going to take a fit. It really is none of her business".
It is lovely to think that artsyguy was discussing seeing me with his kid's mom, and that the kid's mom was encouraging enough of me dating him to suggest he sees me even if his ex takes a fit.

I dunno.
I find both of those tacit approvals rather encouraging, really I do.

And tonight, when I said I had snowshoes, he mentioned maybe going up north over Christmas to snowshoe... he'd provide the vehicle if I provide the snowshoes.

If you ask me, that is encouraging too.


A little more encouraging like this and I might actually grin, instead of just having a hopeful smile.

And look at that! 3am and I am heading to bed for the fourth time in four days. You know I am making an effort if I start rearranging my sleep patterns.

yeah yeah yeah radiogurl. I doth protest too much!

You know, good fathers are really attractive.
Especially when they are artsy.
and like kissing and holding hands, even in the kitchen while turning steaks.

nite nite,

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previous meanderings - future past

Goodbye Michael. May your next life be kinder to you. - Thursday, Jun. 25, 2009
Taking Care of Your Cows - Thursday, Jun. 25, 2009
Saint Joseph robs the cradle and eats spaghetti - Sunday, Jun. 14, 2009
sticky notes and broken irises - Friday, Jun. 12, 2009
The FOODCOMMANDER - Monday, Jun. 08, 2009


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